My wife Paula and I were able to give our testimony this last Friday night at our church. Our church does a once a month "3rd" Friday get together. They serve dinner and have special topics and speakers. Well since Valentines day was Thursday they did a special night on what the bible says about "love". They also had two couples, which we were one of, as speakers on how God entered our relationship and how He has changed it over the years. This message is really less about us and more about glorifying God in what He has done in our marriage. I hope this message blesses anyone who could be in our situation over 10 years ago. God has the power to heal any relationship. Here is our story. Read More...

I just want to put this very bluntly, divorce is not an option for any Christian. My friend and I were discussing if there is any valid reason for getting a divorce and there is only one instance of were God allows divorce and this particular situation does not happen in our culture today. My friend found this great article written by Thomas M. Strouse, Prof. of Theology on The Bible, Marriage and Divorce.

Now we as men and women can come up with lots of excuses why we should be able to divorce, but God's plan is for no one to separate a man and women. We may find ourselves in some very difficult situations with our husband/wives but God's word is very clear on this issue. I also can look at Genesis 2 and see the original plan for marriage that we should strive for and there is nothing in Genesis that says men cleave to your wife unless... Nope it is until death. Take a read of this article it is excellent. I would be curious to know if anyone disagrees with this or not. Read More...

Life has been crazy busy these last few weeks and I have really failed on keeping up on the blog. Hopefully as things calm down I will get back into my routine of posting a couple of times a week. Read More...

More of my thoughts from our men’s bible study in Genesis.

Paul states in Ephesians 5:25: Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,

This is also reinforced when God first established the marriage covenant and the responsibility God has given to men to be spiritual leaders in the home and how to love and take care of their wives. Read More...

A day before valentines day and we are studying through the book of Genesis and what is one of the verses we are covering? Read More...